And finally broke up on Valentine's Day 2018.
I want no sympathy. I am just glad the relationship ended. The faster the better. I am fine with that we broke up. I don't fel sorry.
When we lay a puzzle, we start with all pices. In retro spective I got all pieces to lay my puzzle; to see the picture.
To be honest I don't know what happened. I can only guess.
We had our issues but who don't. I can say for 100 %. Never did I disrespect my ex. I never did harm to her. I never said bad things about her and called her bad names. I was 100 % serious about my relationship.
I did visit my ex by christmas 2018. When I left, I didn't bother hug her at the airport. I thought that I will be surprised if the relationship will last much longer. We broke up by Valentine's Day some weeks later.
First of all my ex didn't apply for fiance visa in November. We had planned this so well for 3 years. She told me she didn't fins time.She had to deliver due to several factors or she had to wait another 12 months. Also timing is very important.
When I came to visit her, she told me not to kiss her, not hug her, she would not let me caress her. This started from the second time I did visit her. We stayed in Cebu City at that time.
A few days before Valentine's Day 2018, she asked me to send her money. I said no. I won't send you money. I can't affort right now and you didn't apply for visa. I don't know if you want to come here.
She did send a mass Valentine's greeting to all friends on messenger. I thought that was not personally for me. I wrote her a nice Valentine's greeting but she didn't reply and I didn't hear from her again.
Friday the same week I came from work. Still silent. By two occations I was about to send her a message that I am leaving her but I didn't find the right words. By the third occation I did message her. It was between 8pm and 9pm (3am-4am PH time): I don't have the right feelings for you anymore.
She was typing back. She was awake but I did find the block button before her message came through.
Her family did find out about 4 weeks later. My ex broke down when they asked her about us. Simulationusly there were contact between my ex and me. well, we gave it try and I told my ex that I wanted to see a new side of her but she did behave for 1 day and then it was back to ignoring me stating she was busy even tho I could see the green light whenever she were online and doing video calls. But she didn't have time for me. We had a fight over that she said she was busy but online and that she didn't change. I wrote her a message that I am leaving.
I think she never were into the relationship but somehow she wouldn't tell me. She may have tried for some reason but there were absolute no chance she could go on. I am just happy I didn't bring the problem to my house.
I am done with TG. I had a relationship to another PH TG but after 10 months she made other plans. She wanted to go to London. Hey! I said, what about me? I am in Norway. She had to think about her own future, she said. OK, bye, I said.
But I didn't waste lots of money travelling the world to see her several times like I did with my recent ex. TGs outside Europe is too risky for me economically. I risk a vast of money and get nothing back.The piece tho money can't buy. I escaped the trap of trouble. No words can praise how happy I am for that.