I know this is going to be a very personal question. Many of you may not want to answer. And apologies if you find it crude. But frankly, if I can’t ask this here, I don’t know where I can. But here are the questions.
Do you guys seek out versatile or top partners?
For those of you who have partners, is your partner versatile? Are they comfortable being top?
They’re very direct obviously, but frankly I am asking because for me the answer to number 1 is yes. I’m single but I’m looking for a versatile partner, one who is perfectly comfortable with having and using their assigned genitalia.
I ask it now because I got into quite a depressing conversation with a trans friend today who seemed adamant that any trans woman would want to have SRS, no exceptions. I’ve come across evidence to the contrary of this, but she was equally adamant that trans women who do this are only doing so to please their partners and have absolutely no desire to use their genitalia for sexual pleasure of their own.
I would really like to hear from all of you. I’m getting quite morose and depressed about my entire search and relationship future at this point.
And please, if you’re going to make the objectification argument, don’t. It’s nonsense.